4 Clear Signs That Others Are Ignoring You (And How To Stop It)

Many times we write about how we can get people out of our circle. People who are toxic or bother us in some way. But what if we are the annoying ones? And we end up being ignored by others and keeping their distance from us.

First of all, you need to understand that you have entered this vicious circle. So here are 4 clear signs that others are ignoring you and don’t want close contact with you.

You are no longer invited. Perhaps the most obvious sign that people around you find you annoying is that they don’t invite you to gatherings and events outside of your usual meeting place. Maybe it’s after-work drinks with colleagues or weekend hangouts with fellow students. And you never seem to be included.

You are the last to hear the news. Among tight-knit groups of friends, news spreads like wildfire. Good news, bad news, gossip, and rumors are shared so quickly through friends at workplaces or anywhere else. If you feel like you’re always the last person to get the latest news, it might be because you’re bothering other people — and they’ve chosen to avoid sharing the news with you. This may be because you are too enthusiastic or not excited enough about other people’s news. Or you may have a habit of sharing other people’s personal information.