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The Most Important Decision We HaveTo Make in Life

The most important decision you can make is to decide that life is too short to suffer and that you will appreciate and enjoy this gift of life no matter what.

Nil Lenon
8 min readDec 31, 2022

There is much beauty around us that we miss because we are so absorbed in the thoughts of the mind and not in our hearts, soul, and spirit.

Too many people obsess over what they do and don’t achieve, and when they don’t get what they want, they get upset. I began to realize that happiness cost me very little in my own life. With over a hundred companies, and thousands of employees on multiple continents, what do you think the odds are that someone, somewhere is making it big right now? Well, if my definition of “doing it” is doing something different than I think I should, that’s probably 100% happening somewhere right now! (By the way, what I consider wrong behavior may actually be a path to success, but we all have our expectations, don’t we?)

So if the only time you’re going to be happy is when everyone behaves the way you want them to behave, whether it’s your children, your spouse, your colleagues, or even yourself, it’s going to be hard to stay in a beautiful, happy and fulfilled state. If you’re not careful, it’s easy to turn into one of…

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Nil Lenon
Nil Lenon

Written by Nil Lenon

A software specialist during the day and a side hustler during night. Writing about code, IT products, personal development and career tips.

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